Nosey man installs security camera during his neighbor's pool renovations, eavesdrops on them saying they dislike him, then contemplates confronting their badmouthing, despite violating their privacy: We came to a conclusion that he means us'

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Emma Saven
Aug 22, 2025 1:00 PM EDT

A friend of mine had a neighbor who was best described as a man drenched in entitlement and Axe Body Spray. Whilst renovating their new family home, builders were moving in and out of their front door. So, as expected, it was left open…Their neighbor saw this as a sly opportunity to have his say in their renovations. They had the most beautiful trees in their backyard, not many, but each a good few decades old…He came into their house one day, while they were out, and instructed the builders to cut down their trees with no warning…and his reasoning: A leaf had fallen in his GARDEN… the place where leaves grow!!

The following story inspired me to share that little one, as it also emphasizes the lack of boundaries and excess of entitlement between neighbors…After this man invests in a new air conditioning unit that happens to be arriving at the same time his neighbor is renovating his pool, he decides to install a security camera to ensure there are no problems…but instead of using it to watch his baby (the aircon unit), he uses it to eavesdrop on his neighbors…and let's just say he doesn't quite love what he hears about himself!

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  • Maybe he shouldn't have listened in on a private conversation, and he wouldn't have to deal with the contemplation of confronting his oblivious neighbor… He was the one who couldn't control his nosiness, and now he's facing the consequences. How do you tell your neighbor, who obviously already dislikes you, ‘Hey, bud, sorry I was just spying on you through my camera, and overheard you badmouthing my family, and I was just wondering what could make you feel that way?'

    …Mmmm, we have a few ideas.

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    Man fixing a pool
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    AITA for putting up a camera during my neighbor’s pool build and then overhearing him say he hates us?

    I am baffled by a recent encounter with my neighbor - primarily what I overheard. I live in the US suburbs and it's summer. I replaced my AC system
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    in March, which was a significant investment for us. Our new (6 months) neighbors in May they informed us they were putting in a pool. This was our first
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    encounter with them. The pool company asked to use the path between our houses and gave us a poorly written liability waiver with inconsistent references. I saw
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    that as opportunity to be a good neighbor and reworded it to be more clear and sent it back, which they appreciated. A few days later, the neighbor wife asked to
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    meet in person to discuss the timeline and concerns. My wife mentioned our new AC unit and asked that machinery avoid the condenser. We also requested
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    their work vehicles not park in front of our house, since we have regular services that need access. I have an old Google camera that I to use for a video feed of the AC unit in case anything happened. I
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    put in a window in a conspicuous location so everyone knew it was there. Over the summer, nothing happened and we had no contact. Last week my wife asked
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    about repairs to our grass and sprinklers. The neighbor's wife said the project was delayed but should finish in a few weeks, all were polite messages.
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    Man installing a home camera
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    This brings us to our most recent encounter a day ago. Around 5pm a work vehicle with a trailer arrives and parks directly in front of our driveway. The workers open the trailer and start doing
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    their work. The truck is labeled for a specific service and another crew had been onsite recently to perform the same service. I was mildly curious as I didn't think it was the same company. As my
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    wife and I head out to take our evening walk with our dog, my wife asks how long they will be there and they respond they are about to leave. The interaction
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    was no more than 5 seconds. As we arrive home, they are leaving and neighbor is heading inside his house. We have a driveway camera. I was
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    curious if I could listen to their conversation and hear why another company was here. Yes, it's me being nosy. What I hear is not that, it's my neighbor complaining about us to these workers. He talks bad about us -
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    mentions the camera. I can tell that they discussed the parking situation. He says he does not like us repeatedly. I can clearly hear him say "Man, I do not like these new neighbors - both of
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    em!" We debated this a bit. I don't know what he means by that - we came to a conclusion that he means us and his other neighbors.
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    I'm taken aback. We've barely spoken. My wife has had maybe 5 back and forth texts and one in person conversation. We've never spoken to him personally. My daughter says she has talked to him once a passing hello. I'm -
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    honestly not sure what I should do here. As I see it, we've done nothing to him - there's never been a personal interaction. So I'm here to ask a bunch of
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    Man installing an air-conditioning unit
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    internet folks - AITA? What should I do here? My wife is considering confronting the neighbor wife.
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    Separate-Debate3839 They shouldn't block your driveway (although it sounds like a temporary unloading), but "don't park in front of my house” is an a le position. Watching your AC unit like it's a sentient being or the Crown Jewels is weird. I'm nosy too, but you crossed the line.
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    adventuresofViolet "My wife is considering confronting the neighbor wife." About what exactly? That they said they don't like you? Nobody is required to like you. YTA
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    Just River 7502 It's weird that you're checking your camera feeds to find out information about what the neighbours are working on. If this is how you behave, or how they perceive you behave (eg with the camera in the driveway) then maybe that's why they don't like you
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    NoExtension7240 Oh geez dude please don't do anything, especially confront them. Who cares that they dont like you? Not everyone has to like you or be your friend. Just ignore them and move on with your life. If you have time to worry about your neighbors not liking you, then you have time to do other s t like read.
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    yellowjacket810 Wow, you snooped looking for drama, find some drama, and are now wondering how to escalate to more drama? Yeah, YTA. Just do nothing and let your neighbors quietly hate you in peace.
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    SorryCity8809 It's too far to say YTA but good god. Unclench. It sounds exhausting to deal with you.
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